Being the parent of someone with a chronic disease, such as Angelman syndrome, can be challenging and exhausting. Many parents and caregivers also worry about what will happen if they are unable to care for their child due to age, an accident, or infirmity.
If you take care of a child with Angelman syndrome, here are a few tips to help you get started in planning for the future.
Contact local agencies
Local agencies or programs, as well as nationally available disability services, can help you plan for your child’s future.
Acknowledge that you may not be able to care for your child in the future. You may become ill or disabled yourself, or the child could outlive you.
Don’t assume that siblings or other relatives will be able to care for the child. Have honest conversations about how much care and support each family member is willing and able to give. Their future situation may be different from what you assume.
Meet with a financial adviser
Many people think that leaving property or money to their disabled child will be sufficient to care for their needs, but this may not be the case. In some U.S. states, leaving the child property or a trust fund may make them ineligible for the health benefits they will need. Meet with a financial adviser to discuss the best way to plan financially for the child’s future. If your child needs a legal guardian, identify who that will be.
Start searching for a residential facility
If you’re thinking about putting your child in a residential facility in the future, start searching for one now because many of them have long waiting lists. You will also want to have enough time to consider which facility will be best in terms of location and type of care offered.
Foster independence in your child
Try to teach your child as many skills as possible and focus on small goals. Can they dress without assistance? Can they brush their teeth? Can they feed themselves or cook simple meals? Try to help them learn as many skills as possible. Think about enrolling him or her in an independent living facility or daycare program.
Help your child to socialize
Encourage your child to socialize with others because social interaction can have a positive impact on their well-being. They may then be more comfortable accepting help from others. It is important for them to accept help from people other than their primary caregiver.
Focus on your child’s wants and needs
When planning for your child’s future, think about their wants as well as their needs. What will be stressful for them? What will they enjoy? Considering their desires, and not only their needs, will make life more enjoyable for them.
Last updated: Jan. 6, 2020
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